The male equivalent of being a slut (it’s not about sex)

A slut is a girl who easily gives guys access to her body.

Be “alpha” enough, make her insecure enough, get her drunk enough, and her pussy is yours. She’s easy. She has low self-esteem, and she compensates through promiscuous behavior because she sees little value in herself beyond her low-vibration sexuality.

She’s a dream come true for weak, low-value men, and a symptom of a failed society for strong, high-value men.

Do you want to be with a girl like that?

If you have strong standards for yourself, and a strong sense of self dissociated from female approval, I assume not. You’ll just brush her off when she looks at you then looks away when you look back.

But if you have your identity and/or emotions invested in sex to an unhealthy degree, you’ll pounce on that slut!

Anyhoo, you may not know this, but guys can be sluts too!

And it’s different for us.

What makes a guy a slut?

Easy access to his heart. Easy opportunities to drive his emotions. Easy chances to become a priority of his.

While a female slut easily gives access to her vagina, a male slut easily gives up access to his heart.

You know these types of guys?

The Nice Guys.

The guys who are so needy that they fall for any girl who gives them a bit of attention.

DON’T BE LIKE THOSE GUYS. THEY’RE SLUTS. THEY’RE EASY. THEY’LL WHORE THEIR HEARTS OUT FOR LOW-QUALITY FEMALE ATTENTION.

These are the guys who get friendzoned because they’re needy for female attention and approval, and they assume they’ll earn that approval through keeping girls Comfortable™.

Maybe they nurse a crush on a female friend, maybe they get some dates and bumble through them, maybe they worship e-girls who don’t care if they live or die. LAME.

One way to put it: Women are the gatekeepers to sex. Men are the gatekeepers to commitment. (Though this isn’t the whole picture)

A woman who has sex easily is a SLUT.

A man who commits easily is a SLUT.

THOSE GUYS’ PROBLEM?

THEY DON’T HAVE A SENSE OF MASCULINE PURPOSE.

If they did, women would smell it on them, and they’d smell it on themselves.

Instead of leading themselves and women, these men submit to women because they lack the masculine confidence that comes from that leadership.

They still have their reproductive instinct, so when a woman comes along, they get infatuated and do anything but honestly demonstrating their interest without neediness, because like female sluts who avoid righteous men, they’re scared of being seen in the light for what they know in their DNA expression they truly are.

They’re male sluts. And like high-quality men are disgusted by women who give up their vagina too easily, high-quality women are disgusted by men who give up their heart too easily.

Women avoid sluttiness when they have a sense of feminine purpose (nurture, support, vibrancy, grace), which is sadly not modeled properly by modern western society.

If you’re a male slut to any degree, you can avoid this. Develop your sense of masculine purpose (potency, conquest, leadership, strength) with me!

And even if you’re selective about who you give your heart and commitment to, that isn’t enough.

You must learn to recognize women who are right and wrong for you, so you don’t waste time with lukewarm dates or approaches after approaches that go nowhere.

You must learn how to demonstrate your interest to a woman and escalate with her like a man, so you avoid ambiguous situations and headaches about women you only MIIIGHT get with.

You don’t want lukewarm. You don’t want women who are maybe about you. You want FIERY. You want ADDICTIVE. You want PASSIONATE. You want women who are FUCK YES about you.

Work with me, and you will become very happy.

Catch you later,

– Ben

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