Back during my hardcore "game"-obsessed days, I was out on a first date with a girl from Tinder. Didn't want to marry her or anything, just wanted to small talk with her a bit, then take her to my place…
Month: September 2021
How to fuck up your pick ups
Whether you live to cold approach or not, you can't deny it's a valuable skill for meeting women outside your social circle, outside the bar scene, and outside of dating apps. It's fun and simple - you live your life,…
The Player Identity
Like most guys in the dating advice industry, I had a hard time getting girls early in life. I grew up skinny, geeky, and sexually and socially anxious. The furthest I went with a girl as a teenager was platonic…
Why the silent guy gets the girl
In the last email, we talked about the power of embracing pausing and silence in the conversation, and how crucial it is for sexual tension... Now here's a story from my life where I made that work for me: I…
Pay attention to the tension!
I see this so so much with guys: They're great at making a girl feel comfortable with them. They know how to vibe, how to make her laugh, exactly what questions will get her to open up, and the right…
The essence of Mr. Nice Guy
Boys, I've been him. Mr. Nice Guy - the guy who's just a little too accommodating of other people's needs... At the expense of his own. He's the guy who can only be friends with a girl, nothing more, as…
Quitting porn – why it’s a game-changer
Nothing kills your masculine energy and masculine mindset quite like porn does. Guys ask themselves "How can I get women?" but neglect a more important question: "Why do I want to get women?" A man who watches porn wants women…
The woman inside you
Wassup boys and boys, we're gonna get Jungian and esoteric here, so buckle up. This is an advanced masculine integration topic I've seen few other dudes talk about. The Anima. Your feminine side, according to Carl Jung. I know that…
Women are mirrors
We gents have all had our disappointing, frustrating, confusing experiences with the ladies. Perhaps that lady hurt you, played with you in unpleasant ways, acted way too anxious or avoidant with you, abused you, banged your best friend, stole that…
SEXUAL ENERGY ALCHEMY
Another day, another dogmatic semen retentioner telling you "if you ever cum at all, you'll lose your motivation for business and sports and creativity and stuff and women won't think you're attractive anymore" As I'm not just A sexual energy coach…