The Player Identity

Like most guys in the dating advice industry, I had a hard time getting girls early in life. I grew up skinny, geeky, and sexually and socially anxious. The furthest I went with a girl as a teenager was platonic cuddling, and I didn’t have my first kiss with a girl until my first week […]

Does “game” attract women?

Game. Much of the men’s dating advice community swears by it. Their mindset is – Women are attracted to high-status behavior in men. So if a man learns how to properly ACT around women, what exactly to say, that Y is the right thing to do when she does X… He’ll clean up, right? I […]

Is she the ONE for you?

I’m sad to admit I’ve been plagued by a deadly disease for much of my dating life. ONEITIS. “When I get this ONE girl, then…” Then what? I’ll be happy? Fulfilled? Have a girl to show off to my friends? Have a purpose in life beyond myself? Fuck’s sake, past me, have some respect for […]