Quitting porn – why it’s a game-changer

Nothing kills your masculine energy and masculine mindset quite like porn does.

Guys ask themselves “How can I get women?” but neglect a more important question:

“Why do I want to get women?”

A man who watches porn wants women for all the wrong reasons – validation, objectification, masturbation.

Such is the programming it instills.

The vicious cycle of porn use

Men get into porn for one big reason – they’re horny and usually don’t feel deserving of real women.

Then as they watch more and more porn, it reprograms their unconscious – they’re undeserving of sex with real women and can only settle for watching other people do it.

Then their lack of real-world results with women leads to more porn consumption. And the cycle continues.

This FUCKS UP the energetic circuit between you and women, between you and the world. Your sexual energy is sucked out of you and whatever’s left is crammed in your head – not much left in your heart or your sex.

Plus, your unconscious mindset around women is one of inferiority, idolatry, cuckoldry.

Your sex life becomes one of pure fantasy, not reality. It’s like “someday, I’ll get laid with a girl like the ones I jerk off to” instead of easily, naturally attracting flesh-and-blood women with the sexual energy that’s already inside you.

That’s what happens when you condition yourself to getting off to watching women have sex – women who don’t know you exist.

When your brain is off porn, you’re able to be in the moment with women. Your energy is freely flowing, not stuffed up in your head. From when your eyes touch, to when your genitals touch.

Now, you can try to hack dating as a cuck – keep jerking off to images and/or videos every night, while learning game and tactics to conceal your real mindset around women.

I tried this back when I couldn’t go a couple days without whacking it, and it was a headache. I could game a girl, get her into me for a bit, but my true, unconsciously driven mindset and programming would always sink things with the girls I wanted. My self-sabotage was immense, especially with the girls I could have had a real shot with. (and let’s not get into the sexual dysfunction when I’d actually get a girl in bed)

I didn’t start to have true confidence and power with girls until AFTER I started quitting porn and doing the nofap thing.

Sexual tension and physical escalation became natural and unconscious instead of awkward and confusing (or numbed). I started to see girls as holistic individuals rather than as wish-fulfillment fantasies, and I started to have a much easier time relating to them as people.

And the best part: I started to notice a looooot more interest from the ladies, now that they were unconsciously picking up on my properly flowing sexual energy, and I got a much stronger radar for theirs, rather than seeing them as purely physical objects I wanted to jerk myself off with.

Quitting porn and masturbation made me feel like I’d stepped into a whole new realm, a whole new dimension of sexuality that I’d previously been numb to.

Such is the power of mastering your sexual energy and your unconscious mind.

Get your unconscious right, or else your dating life will be one of settling, inferiority, impotence, and powerlessness. The stuff you consciously learn will ALIGN and benefit you so much more readily as a result of this.

So brother, if you watch porn… If you can’t go more than a few days (or even just a day) without spilling your seed…

Why?

Let’s talk about it in coaching.

When you’re ready to quit porn for good and unlock the true potential of your masculine energy…

See me.

Cheers,

– Ben


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