A lot of people’s idea of dating is “I’ll spend some time with this person, talk with them, and see if they’re a good fit for me and my goals in life” Good, but that’s not the entire picture. Oftentimes what happens when boy meets girl is – you find each other attractive, you’re curious […]Read More What a kid knows about getting girls that you don’t
A follower of mine on the bird app asked me this recently: “Intuition vs projection: say I’m talking to an attractive woman who I think is attracted to me. How do I determine if it’s my intuition or if I’m projecting my own desire?” I answered it on camera, but if you’d rather read, here’s […]Read More Intuition vs Projection? Which is it?
Nights out at the bars have their perks – quality time with your buddies, an excuse to get drunk, a space to live stories you’re not too drunk to forget, and they’re a source of valuable lessons about human nature. But let’s not deny the absolute fundamental reason most single guys suffer through these: You […]Read More How to meet girls on a night out… on your own!
I got a story from my last Saturday night out at the bars for you boys. Pretty early into the night, I stumbled upon a chill, gregarious guy chatting up a couple girls who were out for a smoke… And a girl in a jean jacket with short hair and piercings who was calling him […]Read More How to win an argument with a woman
I was open about it. It wasn’t some big, juicy secret. All my friends knew. I’d post the occasional Instagram pic of myself en femme. I even showed up to a couple parties in a wig and head-to-toe women’s clothing. Not what you were likely expecting to hear from me today, I know. So this […]Read More Why I used to crossdress
I’ve talked before about how tension and comfort are the main two ingredients of escalation with a woman, and shared a story of how my buddy dated a girl who he had plenty of comfort with… but very little tension, the lack thereof killed whatever romance they had going. (then a story where I made my expertise with […]Read More Tension or comfort? Which one should you actively build?
Men’s looks matter to women. This might be a bitter pill, red or otherwise, but it’s the truth. I’m sure you’ve seen women desire men for no other apparent reason than “He’s so hot” Women put up significantly fewer barriers in front of their sexuality for men who are physically attractive and high-status. They’re as […]Read More Do women only desire Chad?
I spat game at this one girl today, though I could tell there was nothing deeper there between us. The same old routine – opener, assumptions, vibing and showing a bit of vulnerability, making sure she’s not underage, getting a basic picture of who she is, all that jazz. And the number-close. Except this time, […]Read More Am I a fraud?
Ah, first dates. First dates, first dates, first dates. Don’t you just LOVE the uncertainties and anxieties of meeting up with a lady you barely know for the first time? Will you two hit it off and want more of each other? Or will this one end up as a funny and/or depressing story/learning experience? […]Read More The 4 mistakes that’ll kill your first date
As much as I like talking about how men can improve their results with women… There is a subset of them that, I’m sad to say, is doomed NEVER to win the affections of attractive, high-quality women. These men can only ever SETTLE. Either they flop and flounder in the dating world as every single […]Read More The men who will never get the women of their dreams