A follower of mine on the bird app asked me this recently: “Intuition vs projection: say I’m talking to an attractive woman who I think is attracted to me. How do I determine if it’s my intuition or if I’m projecting my own desire?” I answered it on camera, but if you’d rather read, here’s […]Read More Intuition vs Projection? Which is it?
Men’s looks matter to women. This might be a bitter pill, red or otherwise, but it’s the truth. I’m sure you’ve seen women desire men for no other apparent reason than “He’s so hot” Women put up significantly fewer barriers in front of their sexuality for men who are physically attractive and high-status. They’re as […]Read More Do women only desire Chad?
I spat game at this one girl today, though I could tell there was nothing deeper there between us. The same old routine – opener, assumptions, vibing and showing a bit of vulnerability, making sure she’s not underage, getting a basic picture of who she is, all that jazz. And the number-close. Except this time, […]Read More Am I a fraud?
Ah, first dates. First dates, first dates, first dates. Don’t you just LOVE the uncertainties and anxieties of meeting up with a lady you barely know for the first time? Will you two hit it off and want more of each other? Or will this one end up as a funny and/or depressing story/learning experience? […]Read More The 4 mistakes that’ll kill your first date