Does porn prepare you for real sex?

If you know me, you know how I feel about porn. Watching another guy have sex is NOT my idea of a fun time. But can watching sex on screen prepare you for sexing a real-life lady? It does. About as well as watching an action film prepares you for fighting and shooting and beating […]

How cool should you play it with a pretty girl?

I made a TikTok today that got me thinking about something stupid I used to do when I’d meet a girl I was attracted to: I’d play it cool. Way too cool. Not show my interest. And miss out on her for it, even when the girl had straight-up APPROACHED ME! Yeah, this led to many […]

When vulnerability gets you laid

Quick part 2 to yesterday’s email, gentlemen. Last time, we talked about how vulnerability can KILL your vibe with a girl – when you’re dumping your emotions onto her. Now let’s talk more about how vulnerability can get a girl more COMFORTABLE with you, and add to your sexual tension. And hoo boy, unlike during […]

How NOT to be vulnerable with a girl

Ight people, I’m gonna tell you an embarrassing dating (if you could call it that) story starring myself from many years ago. I tried getting a girl out on a date… By being vulnerable with her. Venting to her about my dating struggles, how I was the only one of my friends who hadn’t had […]

“Naturals” with high-quality women all have THIS trait

5 years ago, I’d get panic attacks over the possibility of people not liking me. Oftentimes, girls would ignore me. Guys would act like I wasn’t cool enough for them. When I’d get rejected after a date, ghosted by a girl I had way too much investment in, or even have a mild awkward moment […]

A quick way to get over your oneitis

Howzabout those times when you want that ONE girl? That ONE special girl who you haven’t even gone on a proper fucking date with yet? That girl you’re looking at from a distance, waiting for the glorious moment, the glorious day when you can finally pee in her butt. I’ve been there. Odds are you’ve […]

Girls got more talkative with me when I did THIS

When I first got into cold approach, my interactions with random girls on the street or in cafes were hit-or-miss. I liked to do direct approaches – meet a girl, then IMMEDIATELY tell her she’s pretty or cute or whatever, pause and hold the tension as I let her respond, then… Sometimes, the girls would […]

Your masculinity’s deep source

There’s a ton of talk round these parts about how you can become a more masculine man – lift weights, get more streams of income, talk to more girls and sharpen your seductive powers, stop jerking off and stop watching porn, get a wife and start a family… I approve. Yet accurate as it all […]

What martial arts and dating have in common

For us men who value being masculine, the idea of being good in a fight is quite the ego-boost. And we’ve all known, maybe even been that guy who’s vastly overestimated his own fighting ability, talked shit about how great he’d be in a fight or “subtly” dropped hints about how much of a badass […]