If you’re a “nice guy”, this email’s for you. The defining trait of such a guy is that he’s scared to stand up for himself, he deeply believes his needs don’t deserve to be met. So he buries his needs. He creates covert contracts around them, instead of directly addressing and expressing them. Whether it’s the […]Read More The two ways to get your needs met
There’s a ton of talk in the quote, unquote “manosphere” about MASCULINITY – how you need to lift weights, make money, be on a mission, lead women instead of treating them as your superiors… This talk has its place, and the guys there lap up all the “be a man” platitudes. It’s “saving” men who didn’t […]Read More Should you become more masculine?
I sat beside a first date at a cafe not too long a while back, and live-tweeted it. The guy was about 28-30, girl was in her very late 20s to early 30s, 25 at the absolute possible youngest. Her face was young but wrinkled. Guy was tall, skinny, and looked like a typical modern professional […]Read More How modern men bore women
A truth you need to internalize about life is that your gains come through your losses, not instead of them. Believing otherwise traps you. It gets you stagnant. It gets you AFRAID. I could say a ton about guys’ fears in the dating world, from saying hello to a girl who’s caught their eye, to […]Read More The fear you’re blind to
Sexual attraction and sexual arousal are two different things. Like, you may be ATTRACTED to that clear-skinned blonde college girl in the sundress… But are you aroused by her? Does something about her really speak to you, sexually or personally? Do you feel deeply motivated to pursue her? Sexual attraction is but the first box […]Read More How to arouse a woman
Quick and sexy one today, gentlemen. Buuut my dick being too quick when things get sexy isn’t something I’ve personally dealt with. I’ve had the opposite problem – LASTING TOO LONG. Leading to the girl either cutting our hot and sweaty hookup, or me forcibly finishing myself off. Sometimes, I haven’t even been able to […]Read More “I can’t cum during sex”, “I last too long during sex” – Here’s why you can’t GET IT UP
Let’s deconstruct a common redpill idea here: Women can’t love a man as he desires to be loved. Women want men for WHAT they are, nor for WHO they are. Your value as a man comes from what you provide more than from who you are, sexually and socially. Is this true? Will a woman […]Read More Can women love unconditionally?
Impulsive part 2 to the last email, gentlemen. In this one, we’ll talk about exactly this – when boundary-setting is UNATTRACTIVE. Here’s a story from my life. This New Year’s Eve was an interesting night. It was my first night in Nashville, and I went out to Broadway with a couple buddies + a girl […]Read More When boundary-setting makes you UNATTRACTIVE
When I was hungover on my couch yesterday, I was bingewatching clips of Gordon Ramsay on the YouTube. If you know this man’s temperament, you know why I’m deciding to use him as an example of a subject I’ve wanted to talk about with you gents for a while: Anger. And why being able to […]Read More Gordon Ramsay’s two masculine energies
I came across a Jubilee video today that got me thinking: I’m the Son of a Billionaire. Ask Me Anything. (These videos are a guilty pleasure of mine. I hate that I enjoy them, but welp, I do.) The titular Billionaire’s Son was exactly what you’d expect, as one of the top comments said: “I […]Read More Does this billionaire kid need to be humbled?