I stumbled upon an interesting video on the bird app TL: “How to marry a high value man and become a housewife” The first bit of it goes like: “I love my husband [for a living].” “How did you get that job?” “I became a better human being, and I became feminine, and also – […]Read More Watch out for FAKE FEMININE WOMEN
This’ll be a quick one, gentlemen. I have a lengthier, deeper email coming soon after this one, but first, I want to touch on an attraction topic I don’t think I’ve ever brought up before. Money. How much does money REALLY matter to women? I know there’s a loooot of guys out there who think […]Read More How much do women REALLY care about money?
What’s up people, today I’ll be getting into a controversial topic. One that you’ll get vastly different answers about depending on who you ask about it. Age gaps between men and women. How much of an age gap is acceptable in a relationship or a hookup, and how much of an age gap is weird […]Read More Should older men date the youngest women?
I went out for dinner last night, and wound up in line at the restaurant right behind two alt-rock-looking 20somethings on a first date. So I listened in on their conversation, because what else was there to do? The girl was pretty and present, but closed off, arms crossed, not talkative. Yet she was positioning […]Read More How to stop having “nice guy” dates
I got into a thought-provoking conversation with Pat Stedman and YoyloPUA on the bird app a short while back. It’s right here. The crux of it was Pat’s “planting trees” strategy – friendzoning women instead of jumping on getting with them. This gives you social proof as a cool, non-needy guy, and access to said […]Read More Should you befriend women?
Today’s email should be about some obvious stuff. But I’m writing this in case you need a refresher. And said obvious stuff is – CONTEXT. I’ve seen guys (including myself) absolutely BLOW things with a girl or a group, simply because they were socially disconnected, expecting their dating tactics to be “one size fits all”. […]Read More The quickest way to wreck your reputation
Next time you’re out and about, I encourage you to take a look at people’s eyes, as the eyes are the window to the soul. What do you see in them? I’ll tell you what I see. Most people are complacent. Scared. Drained of life. Waiting for the next drink or smoke or fuck or […]Read More How you can change someone’s life TODAY
If you’ve had some life experience and an open set of eyes, you know: Healthy relationships are few. Toxic, triggering relationships are many. Especially in modern Western society’s spiritually drained dating culture. Don’t act like it’s all going well for you. You’re browsing a dating advice website for a reason. Someone has hurt you. And […]Read More The vampires you invite in
Yesterday, we talked about guys who get laid but still have Beta mindsets. Now let’s talk some more about guys who get laid but still have Beta mindsets. I like them. They’re not all the way there in their masculine self-development, but they’re further along than most guys are. So I’m not gonna tell you […]Read More Should you be a player?
Much of the men’s dating advice community is fixated on being as Alpha as possible. Makes sense? Alphas get laid. Betas get friendzoned and led on, right? The manosphere and its denizens idolize these “alpha” men for one big reason – these men get SEX. They turn women on, viscerally. They have a certain masculine […]Read More What makes the Alpha?