Imagine there’s a rug in your living room. And there’s a bunch of LEGO swept under it. You can’t see the LEGO. But the rug’s bumpy. Uneven. Not aligned with the floor. How would it feel to walk on it? “The rug’s fine. There’s nothing wrong with it,” you say. Really? Then why’s walking on […]Read More Trauma and Tension
As much as I like to talk up my prowess as a coach who transforms guys’ dating lives in a month, I’ll admit there’s some guys who need more time than others. I’ve worked with a couple guys recently who are still in some of the same traps they were in when we started coaching. […]Read More When my clients DON’T make progress
Today’s email for you gentlemen is a refresher on the foundations of attraction. If you know anything about attracting women, you know they respond sexually to FEELINGS, not to facts and logic. Every redpill masculinity guru out there will tell you that you need to make a girl FEEL SOMETHING to be attracted to you, […]Read More What gives a girl FEELINGS for YOU?
I was doing a client call yesterday. Guy was in his late 20s, in debt, working a normie retail job, living with his parents, falling into many validation traps with women. But what really stood out to me on the phone was his voice. He spoke slowly. Weakly. His voice reeked of complacency and defeat. […]Read More I got ANGRY with a client yesterday!
I thought to myself as I usually do while strolling down the street today: Almost all of the people I pass by are UNFUCKABLE, young or old. Every guy is either skinny, fat, or skinnyfat. Hard to come by a high-testosterone guy with a warrior’s body. (Unless I look into a reflective surface 😉 ) […]Read More Why modern dating is harder AND EASIER than before