Here’s everything I currently have in my wardrobe: 13 t-shirts 6 button-ups 4 pairs of pants Two pairs of shoes Two pairs of shorts Socks and underwear Two pairs of sweatpants One sweater, one hoodie, one coat, one hat Not counting my socks and underwear, or my belt and watch and glasses, that’s only 33 […]Read More How minimalism transformed my life
I got into lifting weights in high school for different reasons than some guys do. It wasn’t to get girls. I had low self-esteem and assumed no girl would ever want me even if I was jacked as hell. My self-confidence was that low. So I decided – fuck it, I’ll do it for myself. […]Read More Do women REALLY like muscular men?
I have nothing but respect for men who get into self-improvement. It takes a courageous man to refuse to bend to his circumstances, and to do the work to transform his life into one he’s chosen, not keep it one he’s only settled for. But there’s one unhealthy mindset self-improvement guys often have that keeps […]Read More You’re not special (and that’s okay!)
Women have a dark, destructive, manipulative side. Mainstream dating advice pretends it doesn’t exist. Redpill/manosphere/PUA dating advice assumes it’s all there is. Women are much more complicated than their sex, shadow, mind, or heart alone. If you can’t see women (and yourself) holistically, then you will be constantly blindsided in the dating world, as I […]Read More Why women manipulate men
I’ve talked a ton about mentorship recently, and for good reason. You need to have men in your life further along on their journeys in fitness, finances, and sexual energy, or else you’ll never know what’s possible for you. The right mentors will encourage you to rise to their level. But you can’t and shouldn’t […]Read More What is the mysterious, majestic Casanova Club?
Rejection. Rejection? Rejection! Ah, rejection… That’s half the fun of meeting girls! I mean, if you see it for what it really is. These days if a girl rejects me, I just brush it off and keep moving forward in life when it happens. Even if it’s a harsh rejection. I understand there’s nothing super […]Read More What REALLY happened when she rejected you
Last year when I was hell-bent on fully understanding female psychology, I read, you guessed it… You don’t need me to tell you what a commercial success it’s been, with beautiful prose like “Um.” I feel the color in my cheeks rising again. I must be the color of the communist manifesto. Stop talking. Stop […]Read More Female psychology lessons I (A MAN) learned from Fifty Shades of Grey
Should be fucking obvious HOW to get a girl from a dating app to want to see you – look like a cool, attractive, high-status guy in your photos. Have a bio that doesn’t suck and communicates your personality. Text her with good energy, don’t be needy, and set the date up like a man […]Read More Should you meet girls on dating apps?
Men’s looks matter to women. This might be a bitter pill, red or otherwise, but it’s the truth. I’m sure you’ve seen women desire men for no other apparent reason than “He’s so hot” Women put up significantly fewer barriers in front of their sexuality for men who are physically attractive and high-status. They’re as […]Read More Do women only desire Chad?
I spat game at this one girl today, though I could tell there was nothing deeper there between us. The same old routine – opener, assumptions, vibing and showing a bit of vulnerability, making sure she’s not underage, getting a basic picture of who she is, all that jazz. And the number-close. Except this time, […]Read More Am I a fraud?