I went down to the creek for some sunbathing a couple days ago. I stood by the rushing stream in my rolled-up underwear, embracing that sweet sweet sunlight all over my body. Then the sun hid behind the trees, I put my shorts and shoes back on, and I went off to go find another […]Read More How to eliminate your social anxiety and fear
I’ve asked myself who I’m really meant to be with a lot. I’ve found myself in temporary, unfulfilling friendship after temporary, unfulfilling friendship, dating girl after girl who didn’t stick around, and feeling no vibe with all the rest… If there’s one big thing I’ve learnt about relationship compatibility (we’re talking about all types of […]Read More How to Find Love and Meet Your Soulmates
Yesterday, I talked about a big limiting mindset, of which I still have a bit left to overcome – the mindset that my internal state is caused by my external circumstances, when the reality isn’t so! Now let’s go through 9 more of them, because Cady from Mean Girls said it best: THE LIMIT DOES […]Read More 9 Limiting Mindsets I’ve Overcome
My entire adulthood so far has been about WORK. Staying on top of my schoolwork. Finding a job. Working that job. Putting 8-12-hour days into business projects that ended up becoming my Sexual Energy Coaching thing. Grinding on said Sexual Energy Coaching thing, writing emails for it almost every day. Transforming my clients’ dating lives. […]Read More Let’s re-think Cause And Effect
My boy, there are levels to our dating woes. Some “men” are dedicated to being losers and no “advice” will ever make them get their shit together. Some of us men haven’t gotten lucky at all, but we’re working on ourselves and we’re a few mindset shifts away from getting some wins with the ladies. […]Read More Why every girl you like has a boyfriend
Imagine there’s a rug in your living room. And there’s a bunch of LEGO swept under it. You can’t see the LEGO. But the rug’s bumpy. Uneven. Not aligned with the floor. How would it feel to walk on it? “The rug’s fine. There’s nothing wrong with it,” you say. Really? Then why’s walking on it […]Read More Healing your body’s trauma through sex
What’s up people, today I’ll be getting into a controversial topic. One that you’ll get vastly different answers about depending on who you ask about it. Age gaps between men and women. How much of an age gap is acceptable in a relationship or a hookup, and how much of an age gap is weird […]Read More Should older men date the youngest women?
If you’ve had some life experience and an open set of eyes, you know: Healthy relationships are few. Toxic, triggering relationships are many. Especially in modern Western society’s spiritually drained dating culture. Don’t act like it’s all going well for you. You’re browsing a dating advice website for a reason. Someone has hurt you. And […]Read More The vampires you invite in
There’s a ton of talk round these parts about how you can become a more masculine man – lift weights, get more streams of income, talk to more girls and sharpen your seductive powers, stop jerking off and stop watching porn, get a wife and start a family… I approve. Yet accurate as it all […]Read More Your masculinity’s deep source
I got an interesting response from a reader of my mailing list, after I sent out a promotion for my Holistic Health Coaching program. Way to give unsolicited advice when no one fucking asked. Way to attack my identity and my hustle, but… He’s right. The coaching industry IS rife with subjectivity and fraud. The […]Read More Do you give good advice?