Should older men date the youngest women?

What’s up people, today I’ll be getting into a controversial topic. One that you’ll get vastly different answers about depending on who you ask about it. Age gaps between men and women. How much of an age gap is acceptable in a relationship or a hookup, and how much of an age gap is weird […]

The vampires you invite in

If you’ve had some life experience and an open set of eyes, you know: Healthy relationships are few. Toxic, triggering relationships are many. Especially in modern Western society’s spiritually drained dating culture. Don’t act like it’s all going well for you. You’re browsing a dating advice website for a reason. Someone has hurt you. And […]

Your masculinity’s deep source

There’s a ton of talk round these parts about how you can become a more masculine man – lift weights, get more streams of income, talk to more girls and sharpen your seductive powers, stop jerking off and stop watching porn, get a wife and start a family… I approve. Yet accurate as it all […]

Do you give good advice?

I got an interesting response from a reader of my mailing list, after I sent out a promotion for my Holistic Health Coaching program. Way to give unsolicited advice when no one fucking asked. Way to attack my identity and my hustle, but… He’s right. The coaching industry IS rife with subjectivity and fraud. The […]

How I unfucked my low testosterone and broken balls

My testosterone was fine and dandy in my teen years. I was horny24/7, gaining muscle, and driven to succeed in every domain. A young man of strength and vitality overall. Then in 2018, I crashed my endocrine system with my lifestyle. Sunscreen. Drugs. Porn addiction. Anxiety. My testosterone fell to the bottom end of the […]

How to flirt without being a creep

I had one of my most uncomfortable interactions ever with a stranger a couple nights ago. I was bar-hopping by myself on a Wednesday night, chatting up strangers, checking out the live music, and keeping my eye out for any pretty young ladies looking to dance. (didn’t see any who really struck my eye that […]

How minimalism transformed my life

Here’s everything I currently have in my wardrobe: 13 t-shirts 6 button-ups 4 pairs of pants Two pairs of shoes Two pairs of shorts Socks and underwear Two pairs of sweatpants One sweater, one hoodie, one coat, one hat Not counting my socks and underwear, or my belt and watch and glasses, that’s only 33 […]

Do women REALLY like muscular men?

I got into lifting weights in high school for different reasons than some guys do. It wasn’t to get girls. I had low self-esteem and assumed no girl would ever want me even if I was jacked as hell. My self-confidence was that low. So I decided – fuck it, I’ll do it for myself. […]

You’re not special (and that’s okay!)

I have nothing but respect for men who get into self-improvement. It takes a courageous man to refuse to bend to his circumstances, and to do the work to transform his life into one he’s chosen, not keep it one he’s only settled for. But there’s one unhealthy mindset self-improvement guys often have that keeps […]

What REALLY happened when she rejected you

Rejection. Rejection? Rejection! Ah, rejection… That’s half the fun of meeting girls! I mean, if you see it for what it really is. These days if a girl rejects me, I just brush it off and keep moving forward in life when it happens. Even if it’s a harsh rejection. I understand there’s nothing super […]