I’ve made this “nice guy” mistake many years ago, and maybe you’ve made it too. Getting dating advice from the gals. You know what the ladies say when you come to them for girl advice. “Just be yourself” (if you’re hot, cool, and fun) “Do something nice for her, like buying her flowers” (when you’re […]Read More Do women give effective dating advice?
I stumbled upon an interesting video on the bird app TL: “How to marry a high value man and become a housewife” The first bit of it goes like: “I love my husband [for a living].” “How did you get that job?” “I became a better human being, and I became feminine, and also – […]Read More Watch out for FAKE FEMININE WOMEN
Today’s email should be about some obvious stuff. But I’m writing this in case you need a refresher. And said obvious stuff is – CONTEXT. I’ve seen guys (including myself) absolutely BLOW things with a girl or a group, simply because they were socially disconnected, expecting their dating tactics to be “one size fits all”. […]Read More The quickest way to wreck your reputation
Yesterday, we talked about guys who get laid but still have Beta mindsets. Now let’s talk some more about guys who get laid but still have Beta mindsets. I like them. They’re not all the way there in their masculine self-development, but they’re further along than most guys are. So I’m not gonna tell you […]Read More Should you be a player?
I just got finessed out of $10, and I happily gave it to the guy. An older black gentleman dressed in a hoodie, baseball cap, and cargo pants complimented my hat, chatted me up, and had more game than most people I’ve met. Game that I need to take some pointers from, but he should […]Read More Why intelligent guys suck at FRAME
Here’s a few photos of me glowing up. 2019, when my endocrine system was crashed: And last night: I don’t know what you’re thinking, but I’ll tell you what I’m thinking: I wasn’t a very attractive guy in 2019. I looked drained, emasculated, pale, and thin-skinned. Compare that to how I look now – virile, […]Read More The magic pills to becoming ATTRACTIVE
Conventional wisdom states that lower rep ranges are most conducive to strength, 8-12 is mostly for hypertrophy, and beyond that is solely for endurance. But if you know me, you know one of my favorite hobbies is challenging conventional wisdom. In my 8 years of training, I’ve not found this to be entirely true. Yes, […]Read More What most lifters don’t get about rep ranges
Most of my clients so far have been single guys who wanted to get better at attracting women, dating around, and being sexually confident. I was happy to help them. They’ve ended up dating and retaining attractive, good girls after just a month of working with me! But I don’t ONLY work with single guys. […]Read More Should men in relationships work with me?
A follower of mine on the bird app asked me this recently: “Intuition vs projection: say I’m talking to an attractive woman who I think is attracted to me. How do I determine if it’s my intuition or if I’m projecting my own desire?” I answered it on camera, but if you’d rather read, here’s […]Read More Intuition vs Projection? Which is it?
Like most guys in the dating advice industry, I had a hard time getting girls early in life. I grew up skinny, geeky, and sexually and socially anxious. The furthest I went with a girl as a teenager was platonic cuddling, and I didn’t have my first kiss with a girl until my first week […]Read More The Player Identity