Watch out for FAKE FEMININE WOMEN

I stumbled upon an interesting video on the bird app TL: “How to marry a high value man and become a housewife” The first bit of it goes like: “I love my husband [for a living].” “How did you get that job?” “I became a better human being, and I became feminine, and also – […]

How much do women REALLY care about money?

This’ll be a quick one, gentlemen. I have a lengthier, deeper email coming soon after this one, but first, I want to touch on an attraction topic I don’t think I’ve ever brought up before. Money. How much does money REALLY matter to women? I know there’s a loooot of guys out there who think […]

How to stop having “nice guy” dates

I went out for dinner last night, and wound up in line at the restaurant right behind two alt-rock-looking 20somethings on a first date. So I listened in on their conversation, because what else was there to do? The girl was pretty and present, but closed off, arms crossed, not talkative. Yet she was positioning […]

Should you befriend women?

I got into a thought-provoking conversation with Pat Stedman and YoyloPUA on the bird app a short while back. It’s right here. The crux of it was Pat’s “planting trees” strategy – friendzoning women instead of jumping on getting with them. This gives you social proof as a cool, non-needy guy, and access to said […]

The quickest way to wreck your reputation

Today’s email should be about some obvious stuff. But I’m writing this in case you need a refresher. And said obvious stuff is – CONTEXT. I’ve seen guys (including myself) absolutely BLOW things with a girl or a group, simply because they were socially disconnected, expecting their dating tactics to be “one size fits all”. […]

How you can change someone’s life TODAY

Next time you’re out and about, I encourage you to take a look at people’s eyes, as the eyes are the window to the soul. What do you see in them? I’ll tell you what I see. Most people are complacent. Scared. Drained of life. Waiting for the next drink or smoke or fuck or […]

Should you be a player?

Yesterday, we talked about guys who get laid but still have Beta mindsets. Now let’s talk some more about guys who get laid but still have Beta mindsets. I like them. They’re not all the way there in their masculine self-development, but they’re further along than most guys are. So I’m not gonna tell you […]

What makes the Alpha?

Much of the men’s dating advice community is fixated on being as Alpha as possible. Makes sense? Alphas get laid. Betas get friendzoned and led on, right? The manosphere and its denizens idolize these “alpha” men for one big reason – these men get SEX. They turn women on, viscerally. They have a certain masculine […]

The two ways to get your needs met

If you’re a “nice guy”, this email’s for you. The defining trait of such a guy is that he’s scared to stand up for himself, he deeply believes his needs don’t deserve to be met. So he buries his needs. He creates covert contracts around them, instead of directly addressing and expressing them. Whether it’s the […]

Should you become more masculine?

There’s a ton of talk in the quote, unquote “manosphere” about MASCULINITY – how you need to lift weights, make money, be on a mission, lead women instead of treating them as your superiors… This talk has its place, and the guys there lap up all the “be a man” platitudes. It’s “saving” men who didn’t […]