A lot of dating advice out there is very game-focused. "Say this, do this, then she'll like you" Game is necessary when dealing with women, but it's only a vehicle for your masculine energy. It's not the source of that…
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Will things ever get better?
My life is on hold because of the fucking Wuhan virus, as are many other people's. That's bumming me out, to say the least. There's plenty I want to do with myself in the outside world, but all I can…
The wrong thing to do when you make a woman uncomfortable
As a young man who wants to make it in the dating advice industry, I like to see what other guys in it are doing. I watch their videos, read their blogs, and look at their sales pitches. Last night,…
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My recent bout with low testosterone
I was going strong for most of the pandemic - Never missing a workout, building my business, and forging myself overall. I'm committed to being the best damn Ben Foth to ever be Ben Foth. Then I started feeling like…
Women who dislike social media – Green flag?
A young king named Tell wrote a thread yesterday about how "women who dislike social media are based af and wife material" I get what he's thinking. Like any guy with his head on straight, he wants a woman with good values…
Is this girl LTR material? How can I tell if she’s high-quality?
Two guys in the last couple days have approached me with the same problem: How can you tell if a girl's LTR material? Both guys are in their mid-20s, dating to marry. One guy was "maybe" about sleeping around along…
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How you REALLY fucked things up with that girl
Ever been getting on well with a girl who's genuinely interested in getting to know you better? Then done some innocent little thing that BRUTALLY MURDERED her attraction to you? Made her suddenly cold, unreceptive, withdrawn with you? I'm no…
Porn kills your ability to adore women
Alright people, we're back with another newsletter about why porn sucks. Let's get to it. Porn conditions you to objectify and worship women. If your sexual release comes from just LOOKING AT women while touching yourself, it wires your brain…
How to be assertive, confident, charismatic, and magnetic around women, and anyone
Plenty of guys struggle with a little thing called "being boring around women". It's frustrating when no matter what you say or do, girls seem to brush you off and look for a better option. You didn't give them that…
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The one thing all PUAs get right
As a dating coach, I don't entirely agree with the PUAs' methods: * Approaching many women a day without discernment * Giving those women canned, scripted lines * Being needy while pretending they aren't * Being unwilling to walk away from…