How modern men bore women

I sat beside a first date at a cafe not too long a while back, and live-tweeted it. The guy was about 28-30, girl was in her very late 20s to early 30s, 25 at the absolute possible youngest. Her face was young but wrinkled. Guy was tall, skinny, and looked like a typical modern professional […]

The fear you’re blind to

A truth you need to internalize about life is that your gains come through your losses, not instead of them. Believing otherwise traps you. It gets you stagnant. It gets you AFRAID. I could say a ton about guys’ fears in the dating world, from saying hello to a girl who’s caught their eye, to […]

How to arouse a woman

Sexual attraction and sexual arousal are two different things. Like, you may be ATTRACTED to that clear-skinned blonde college girl in the sundress… But are you aroused by her? Does something about her really speak to you, sexually or personally? Do you feel deeply motivated to pursue her? Sexual attraction is but the first box […]

“I can’t cum during sex”, “I last too long during sex” – Here’s why you can’t GET IT UP

Quick and sexy one today, gentlemen. Buuut my dick being too quick when things get sexy isn’t something I’ve personally dealt with. I’ve had the opposite problem – LASTING TOO LONG. Leading to the girl either cutting our hot and sweaty hookup, or me forcibly finishing myself off. Sometimes, I haven’t even been able to […]

Can women love unconditionally?

Let’s deconstruct a common redpill idea here: Women can’t love a man as he desires to be loved. Women want men for WHAT they are, nor for WHO they are. Your value as a man comes from what you provide more than from who you are, sexually and socially. Is this true? Will a woman […]

When boundary-setting makes you UNATTRACTIVE

Impulsive part 2 to the last email, gentlemen. In this one, we’ll talk about exactly this – when boundary-setting is UNATTRACTIVE. Here’s a story from my life. This New Year’s Eve was an interesting night. It was my first night in Nashville, and I went out to Broadway with a couple buddies + a girl […]

Gordon Ramsay’s two masculine energies

When I was hungover on my couch yesterday, I was bingewatching clips of Gordon Ramsay on the YouTube. If you know this man’s temperament, you know why I’m deciding to use him as an example of a subject I’ve wanted to talk about with you gents for a while: Anger. And why being able to […]

Does this billionaire kid need to be humbled?

I came across a Jubilee video today that got me thinking: I’m the Son of a Billionaire. Ask Me Anything. (These videos are a guilty pleasure of mine. I hate that I enjoy them, but welp, I do.) The titular Billionaire’s Son was exactly what you’d expect, as one of the top comments said: “I […]

Can bad people turn good?

I’m as into self-improvement as you are, perhaps a bit more so or a bit less so. And yeah, spreading the gospel’s been tempting – trying to get other people into lifting, nofap, cold approach, biochemistry, working on their mindsets and bodies and spirits… L. M. A. O. So here’s a harsh fucking lesson I’ve […]

How I counterintuitively kicked my addictions

If you know my story, you know I’ve had a few addictions – alcohol, drugs, porn, escapism… And I’ve kicked them all 😉 Hoo boy, it was painful. But these were growing pains. A vicious motivator to get sober and free myself from addiction. But who gives a shit about me and my past? What […]