Should be fucking obvious HOW to get a girl from a dating app to want to see you – look like a cool, attractive, high-status guy in your photos. Have a bio that doesn’t suck and communicates your personality. Text her with good energy, don’t be needy, and set the date up like a man […]Read More Should you meet girls on dating apps?
A follower of mine on the bird app asked me this recently: “Intuition vs projection: say I’m talking to an attractive woman who I think is attracted to me. How do I determine if it’s my intuition or if I’m projecting my own desire?” I answered it on camera, but if you’d rather read, here’s […]Read More Intuition vs Projection? Which is it?
Men’s looks matter to women. This might be a bitter pill, red or otherwise, but it’s the truth. I’m sure you’ve seen women desire men for no other apparent reason than “He’s so hot” Women put up significantly fewer barriers in front of their sexuality for men who are physically attractive and high-status. They’re as […]Read More Do women only desire Chad?
I spat game at this one girl today, though I could tell there was nothing deeper there between us. The same old routine – opener, assumptions, vibing and showing a bit of vulnerability, making sure she’s not underage, getting a basic picture of who she is, all that jazz. And the number-close. Except this time, […]Read More Am I a fraud?
Ah, first dates. First dates, first dates, first dates. Don’t you just LOVE the uncertainties and anxieties of meeting up with a lady you barely know for the first time? Will you two hit it off and want more of each other? Or will this one end up as a funny and/or depressing story/learning experience? […]Read More The 4 mistakes that’ll kill your first date
Like most guys in the dating advice industry, I had a hard time getting girls early in life. I grew up skinny, geeky, and sexually and socially anxious. The furthest I went with a girl as a teenager was platonic cuddling, and I didn’t have my first kiss with a girl until my first week […]Read More The Player Identity
Game. Much of the men’s dating advice community swears by it. Their mindset is – Women are attracted to high-status behavior in men. So if a man learns how to properly ACT around women, what exactly to say, that Y is the right thing to do when she does X… He’ll clean up, right? I […]Read More Does “game” attract women?
I’m sad to admit I’ve been plagued by a deadly disease for much of my dating life. ONEITIS. “When I get this ONE girl, then…” Then what? I’ll be happy? Fulfilled? Have a girl to show off to my friends? Have a purpose in life beyond myself? Fuck’s sake, past me, have some respect for […]Read More Is she the ONE for you?
I had a frustrating experience a few summers ago. I was at the beach with some friends, aaaand I really wanted to play some volleyball (plus also get laid with a volleyball girl). So I wandered away from my group and joined in on a beach v-ball game feat. a girl who was just my […]Read More The one where I talk about regrets and stuff
My quote, unquote “self-improvement journey” began when I was 14-15. At the time, I felt powerless in absolutely every domain of my life. I was the spineless hopeless romantic “nice guy” with every girl I liked. I hated my schoolwork. I’d get paralyzing anxiety when chatting up new people and have a very shite time […]Read More The men self-improvement is REALLY for