Should you meet girls on dating apps?

Should be fucking obvious HOW to get a girl from a dating app to want to see you – look like a cool, attractive, high-status guy in your photos. Have a bio that doesn’t suck and communicates your personality. Text her with good energy, don’t be needy, and set the date up like a man […]

Do women only desire Chad?

Men’s looks matter to women. This might be a bitter pill, red or otherwise, but it’s the truth. I’m sure you’ve seen women desire men for no other apparent reason than “He’s so hot” Women put up significantly fewer barriers in front of their sexuality for men who are physically attractive and high-status. They’re as […]

Am I a fraud?

I spat game at this one girl today, though I could tell there was nothing deeper there between us. The same old routine – opener, assumptions, vibing and showing a bit of vulnerability, making sure she’s not underage, getting a basic picture of who she is, all that jazz. And the number-close. Except this time, […]

The 4 mistakes that’ll kill your first date

Ah, first dates. First dates, first dates, first dates. Don’t you just LOVE the uncertainties and anxieties of meeting up with a lady you barely know for the first time? Will you two hit it off and want more of each other? Or will this one end up as a funny and/or depressing story/learning experience? […]

Does “game” attract women?

Game. Much of the men’s dating advice community swears by it. Their mindset is – Women are attracted to high-status behavior in men. So if a man learns how to properly ACT around women, what exactly to say, that Y is the right thing to do when she does X… He’ll clean up, right? I […]

Is she the ONE for you?

I’m sad to admit I’ve been plagued by a deadly disease for much of my dating life. ONEITIS. “When I get this ONE girl, then…” Then what? I’ll be happy? Fulfilled? Have a girl to show off to my friends? Have a purpose in life beyond myself? Fuck’s sake, past me, have some respect for […]

The one where I talk about regrets and stuff

I had a frustrating experience a few summers ago. I was at the beach with some friends, aaaand I really wanted to play some volleyball (plus also get laid with a volleyball girl). So I wandered away from my group and joined in on a beach v-ball game feat. a girl who was just my […]

The men self-improvement is REALLY for

My quote, unquote “self-improvement journey” began when I was 14-15. At the time, I felt powerless in absolutely every domain of my life. I was the spineless hopeless romantic “nice guy” with every girl I liked. I hated my schoolwork. I’d get paralyzing anxiety when chatting up new people and have a very shite time […]

Pre-consenting to having you

Attraction isn’t a choice. Assuming otherwise is one of the biggest, most flawed misconceptions you can have as a man looking to make it in the dating world. No matter what you say or do, 95%+ of women out there just aren’t for you. There is absolutely nothing you can do to win them over […]

Is vulnerability manly?

Ugh, emotions and feelings and self-disclosure and stuff. Some of us men don’t really care for that, right? Not when we could be out crushing our goals, swooping ladies, and living a lifestyle of action, not just sitting around and ruminating on our feelings. Well, it’s not either/or. You don’t have to choose between being […]