Do women only desire Chad?

Men’s looks matter to women. This might be a bitter pill, red or otherwise, but it’s the truth. I’m sure you’ve seen women desire men for no other apparent reason than “He’s so hot” Women put up significantly fewer barriers in front of their sexuality for men who are physically attractive and high-status. They’re as […]

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Am I a fraud?

I spat game at this one girl today, though I could tell there was nothing deeper there between us. The same old routine – opener, assumptions, vibing and showing a bit of vulnerability, making sure she’s not underage, getting a basic picture of who she is, all that jazz. And the number-close. Except this time, […]

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Does “game” attract women?

Game. Much of the men’s dating advice community swears by it. Their mindset is – Women are attracted to high-status behavior in men. So if a man learns how to properly ACT around women, what exactly to say, that Y is the right thing to do when she does X… He’ll clean up, right? I […]

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Is she the ONE for you?

I’m sad to admit I’ve been plagued by a deadly disease for much of my dating life. ONEITIS. “When I get this ONE girl, then…” Then what? I’ll be happy? Fulfilled? Have a girl to show off to my friends? Have a purpose in life beyond myself? Fuck’s sake, past me, have some respect for […]

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Pre-consenting to having you

Attraction isn’t a choice. Assuming otherwise is one of the biggest, most flawed misconceptions you can have as a man looking to make it in the dating world. No matter what you say or do, 95%+ of women out there just aren’t for you. There is absolutely nothing you can do to win them over […]

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Is vulnerability manly?

Ugh, emotions and feelings and self-disclosure and stuff. Some of us men don’t really care for that, right? Not when we could be out crushing our goals, swooping ladies, and living a lifestyle of action, not just sitting around and ruminating on our feelings. Well, it’s not either/or. You don’t have to choose between being […]

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