If you were to ask me for a “how to” guide on becoming a stellar author, I’d tell you: “I don’t know. There isn’t one.” Unless you’re asking me to beta-read something you’ve already written, I have no “how to become/improve/move forward as an author” advice for you. Every author’s journey is different. We all […]

I’ve been musing on the concept of trade-offs a ton recently. Everything I used to believe about manifestation, in hindsight, is utter bullshit. There’s really one way to get the dream body, the dream career, the dream partner, the dream social life, dream romantic life, etc: You need to sacrifice everything they are not. “No […]

I turned 27 5 days ago, and it feels good getting older for once. I don’t dread ageing like I used to, and I’m more excited to see how I’ll be in my 30s and 40s than in my late 20s. I’m not fetishizing my youth anymore, thinking my opportunities to create my reality peaked […]

One vital thing many people Don’t Fucking Get™ about self-improvement is that there’s a cap to it. You have your limits, and you can never alter them no matter how much action you take. At a certain level of self-development, there’s just nothing more to develop. You have a genetic limit to how much muscle […]

If you haven’t already heard, I published my first ever complete work of fiction a few weeks ago: Starlight Season 1: Extraterrestrial, Supernatural, Unconventional. It’s an episodic short story collection about the alien, the supernatural, and the esoteric. If you like stories that are exciting, sexy, dramatic, comedic, and heartwarming, you’ll enjoy this. But I’m […]

Ageing has been one of my biggest insecurities. I dreaded turning 21. I dreaded turning 22. I dreaded turning 23. I dreaded turning 24. I was okay with turning 25. The last birthday of mine I ever celebrated was 20. I was in college, popular and high-status for once in my life. I hung out […]

A ton of people get into self-improvement for a valid reason: They don’t like themselves and their life very much, and they know something’s gotta change. They want to make their life better, and are willing to take action to make their dreams real. I’ve been there, and it’s been a worthy edge of mine. […]