Imagine there’s a rug in your living room. And there’s a bunch of LEGO swept under it. You can’t see the LEGO. But the rug’s bumpy. Uneven. Not aligned with the floor. How would it feel to walk on it? “The rug’s fine. There’s nothing wrong with it,” you say. Really? Then why’s walking on […]Read More Trauma and Tension
As much as I like to talk up my prowess as a coach who transforms guys’ dating lives in a month, I’ll admit there’s some guys who need more time than others. I’ve worked with a couple guys recently who are still in some of the same traps they were in when we started coaching. […]Read More When my clients DON’T make progress
Today’s email for you gentlemen is a refresher on the foundations of attraction. If you know anything about attracting women, you know they respond sexually to FEELINGS, not to facts and logic. Every redpill masculinity guru out there will tell you that you need to make a girl FEEL SOMETHING to be attracted to you, […]Read More What gives a girl FEELINGS for YOU?
I was doing a client call yesterday. Guy was in his late 20s, in debt, working a normie retail job, living with his parents, falling into many validation traps with women. But what really stood out to me on the phone was his voice. He spoke slowly. Weakly. His voice reeked of complacency and defeat. […]Read More I got ANGRY with a client yesterday!
I thought to myself as I usually do while strolling down the street today: Almost all of the people I pass by are UNFUCKABLE, young or old. Every guy is either skinny, fat, or skinnyfat. Hard to come by a high-testosterone guy with a warrior’s body. (Unless I look into a reflective surface 😉 ) […]Read More Why modern dating is harder AND EASIER than before
That’s a question I’ve asked myself many many times when I was putting my reps into daygame, nightgame, social circle game, and even online dating… You may be asking yourself the same thing, if approaching has struck your fancy. I wasn’t too intuitive when I first got into dating and meeting girls. I’d “Hail Mary” […]Read More Which girls should you approach?
I stumbled upon an interesting video on the bird app TL: “How to marry a high value man and become a housewife” The first bit of it goes like: “I love my husband [for a living].” “How did you get that job?” “I became a better human being, and I became feminine, and also – […]Read More Watch out for FAKE FEMININE WOMEN
This’ll be a quick one, gentlemen. I have a lengthier, deeper email coming soon after this one, but first, I want to touch on an attraction topic I don’t think I’ve ever brought up before. Money. How much does money REALLY matter to women? I know there’s a loooot of guys out there who think […]Read More How much do women REALLY care about money?
What’s up people, today I’ll be getting into a controversial topic. One that you’ll get vastly different answers about depending on who you ask about it. Age gaps between men and women. How much of an age gap is acceptable in a relationship or a hookup, and how much of an age gap is weird […]Read More Should older men date the youngest women?
I went out for dinner last night, and wound up in line at the restaurant right behind two alt-rock-looking 20somethings on a first date. So I listened in on their conversation, because what else was there to do? The girl was pretty and present, but closed off, arms crossed, not talkative. Yet she was positioning […]Read More How to stop having “nice guy” dates