Surrendering to depression

I recently had my final call with my mentor Pat Stedman. He’s a dating/relationship coach like I used to be, except actually successful at it, married with children, and in my opinion, the best in the world at what he does. And of course, I only want the best for myself. That’s why I chose […]

The antagonists of our lives

Right now, my #1 mission in life is getting a book done. Starlight Season 1: Extraterrestrial, Supernatural, Unconventional. It’s an episodic short story collection written in the style of a TV series’ 13-episode-long first season. So far, 10 of these stories are complete, and I’ve written 1/3 of the 11th. I just need to finish […]

Making peace with ageing

Ageing has been one of my biggest insecurities. I dreaded turning 21. I dreaded turning 22. I dreaded turning 23. I dreaded turning 24. I was okay with turning 25. The last birthday of mine I ever celebrated was 20. I was in college, popular and high-status for once in my life. I hung out […]

How manifestation really works

Have you ever seen someone break a wine glass with their voice? Singing a note at just the right frequency resonating with the glass, causing it to crack? I personally think throwing the glass at a wall is a much more efficient way to break it, but you do you. Still, you can see the […]

4 mindsets of a mature adult

I can’t say I’ve lived a very special life, nor a super exceptional one. I’m just living a life of constant growth and expansion. A life where I choose to have integrity, courage, and love in all domains. Understanding that I don’t get to decide WHAT exactly happens to me, nor WHEN it happens, but […]

The one where I talk about being average

A ton of people get into self-improvement for a valid reason: They don’t like themselves and their life very much, and they know something’s gotta change. They want to make their life better, and are willing to take action to make their dreams real. I’ve been there, and it’s been a worthy edge of mine. […]

3D, 4D, 5D, and 6D explained

If there’s one type of person I have a (loving) vendetta against, it’s the fake-spiritual types. People who get into spirituality to avoid their life’s problems, rather than to better face them. People who outsource their judgements on life to astrology, esotericism, tarot, ayahuasca, and basically anything besides real-world action and knowledge. But they get […]

Dating in Celestial Realms

The higher you rise in consciousness, the more paradoxical and yet, united things become. The more you realize people, places, things, and events are all part of one story, one energy field among infinite fields, and are thus, inseparable. You are Fated to meet certain people. You are destined to forge yourself through certain paths. […]

The vibrations of the dating world

Everyone above a certain level of consciousness intuitively understands energy, but not all of us can put it into words. Some people’s energy is cold, dull, discomforting. Either they’re barely visible in a crowd, low-energy and hiding themselves away, or they’re smart and present, but they smell like a snake. Even if what they’re saying […]

How to find your life’s purpose instead of just grinding all day

I was really damn horny one night back when I lived in Nashville, so I downed some drinks and went out to my personal Hell: Broadway. Hunting for a pretty 21-year-old tourist down to be my girl for the night. These girls weren’t biting. I didn’t even want to fish for them. I ran game […]